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Originally posted by AHTOH: yeah, I agree that russian ladies are a lovely bunch! gotta love them, bless their hearts! liberalism is an oxymoron.liberals can't say a word, without, clearly unbenounced to them, chop away at the very limb they sit on.

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Anais!!!! I hope you wouldn't mind if we call you Russian too??? :o))))))))) "Have you ever noticed? Anybody going slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac."

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I am honored Anais "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin

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i agree with kisulya. i think all you women who try to say that you have to be badass and constantly repeating "i want a guy to like me for who i am and i dont want to act like i'm stupid just to please him"....only shows me that you 'badass' girls have a low self-esteem, and that in the past, someone treated you like a 'stupid girl' and you have to bark like little dogs to show the world that you are not dumb, etc. pretty pathetic, if you ask me. REAL women, like kisulya, don't need to bark to be heard. "If you found a man at the top of the mountain, he did not fall there." - some idiot II

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II... You know that I like both Kisulya and you, but I also would like you to respect some other opinion. Yes, I am what I am and there is no way I'l want to change it. Trust me, it's not connected with my "dark past" or whatsoever. I had a wonderful childhood (except my mom tried to "make out" of me something that I'm really not ). If the message refferes to me personally - I'd like to ask you to apologize. If not - whatever. "Have you ever noticed? Anybody going slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac."

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Originally posted by IntensityInsanity: i agree with kisulya. i think all you women who try to say that you have to be badass and constantly repeating "i want a guy to like me for who i am and i dont want to act like i'm stupid just to please him"....only shows me that you 'badass' girls have a low self-esteem, and that in the past, someone treated you like a 'stupid girl' and you have to bark like little dogs to show the world that you are not dumb, etc. pretty pathetic, if you ask me. REAL women, like kisulya, don't need to bark to be heard.

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Nice that you want to stand by your woman II.... But beyond that.... What are you talking about? A real woman doesn't have to whisper to prove she's a woman either. A real woman doesn't have anything to prove. She lives her life to the fullest & is her organically expressed self....regardless of what some elements of the world think. A real woman isn't a blind conformist that follows a script that's pre-written for her....She is who she is. She can be creative or middle of the road, but she does it for her own reasons because it's her path. If she's smart, she'll make sure she's self-reliant when she needs to be. Real men should know the difference between a dog & a woman....and should know how to speak to women respectfully as people. Anais "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin

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Alina, I hope a tom-boy one named Alina :o))))))))))) How did you know ? Anais, Alien - khe, khe... explains things "Чем больше женщину мы меньше, тем меньше больше она нас"

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- Независимость - это когда в 20-й раз наступаешь на одни и те же грабли, а русские уже ни при чем....

Что вы спорите? Есть хорошая поговорка: женщина - друг человека. Translation: there is a russian saying "a woman is a person's friend".

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and what about us German girls, eh? btw, by playing princess I meant, pretending to be helpless and waiting for a knight in shining armor............I mean, what guy wants to only rescue a damsel in distress? "Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo." H.G. Wells

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"Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo."
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Originally posted by blonde again: and what about us German girls, eh? btw, by playing princess I meant, pretending to be helpless and waiting for a knight in shining armor............I mean, what guy wants to only rescue a damsel in distress?

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First he will resque her, than she'll have to polish his armor ... "Чем больше женщину мы меньше, тем меньше больше она нас"

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- Независимость - это когда в 20-й раз наступаешь на одни и те же грабли, а русские уже ни при чем....

And this is why she shouldn't be in distress in the first place so she doesn't need rescuing & then doesn't have to get stuck polishing armor. They should both be out of distress so that they can ride off into the sunset & kick some rear together and/or just make love on the beach....whatever strikes them.... I much prefer a: we are both strong & creative & free to create a third beautiful thing together type of vision. Anais "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin

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If everybody is strong and kicking some ass somewhere or making love on the beach - who's polishing the armor or washing the dishes ? "Чем больше женщину мы меньше, тем меньше больше она нас"

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Originally posted by KGBMan: If everybody is strong and kicking some ass somewhere or making love on the beach - who's polishing the armor or washing the dishes ? "Чем больше женщину мы меньше, тем меньше больше она нас"

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A dishwasher. Long live technical progress! "Have you ever noticed? Anybody going slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac."

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Originally posted by Alina:

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Originally posted by KGBMan: If everybody is strong and kicking some ass somewhere or making love on the beach - who's polishing the armor or washing the dishes ? "Чем больше женщину мы меньше, тем меньше больше она нас"

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A dishwasher. Long live technical progress!

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Originally posted by Alina:

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Originally posted by KGBMan: If everybody is strong and kicking some ass somewhere or making love on the beach - who's polishing the armor or washing the dishes ?

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A dishwasher. Long live technical progress!

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High 5 girl! Anais "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin

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Кисуля, это действительно вопрос веков. Женщины не знают как привлечь и удержать мужчину, а мужчина постоянно расскрывает тайный смысл женских сердец. Из всего прочитанного я поняла, что никто так и не пришел к единой истине, т.к. по идее она у каждого своя. А не думаете ли вы, дорогие друзья, что просто напросто нужно быть самим собой, каким и создала тебя Ее Величество Природа. Никто не раскроет тебя, твой тайный смысл, как только ты сам. Не нужно стремиться быть каким-то как кто-то - в этом только будет твоя потеря. И на счет того, как удержать любимого. А зачем его удерживать? Если между вами настоящая открытая любовь и вы следуете одной тропой - тогда вас никто и ничто не разлучит, и не нужны вам никакие секреты. Поймите, что мы выбираем сердцем и душей, т.е. подсознательно, а не по определенным параметрам. И я уверена, многие не могут сказать однозначно, почему они выбрали именно этого человека. Это и есть та тайна Вселенной, которая заложена в каждом из нас. Я полагаю, что этим также сказано какой нужно быть женщине, чтобы понравится мужчине. Милые дамы - будьте просто женщиной, той, которая живет внутри вас - дайте ей свободу и вы сами удивитесь насколько огромен мир вокруг вас. Любите и будьте счастливы! Юлия www.delfania.com[ www.delfania.com

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"Love will change the world!"

muzhiki - vse inoplanetane i nam nikogda ix ne ponat... tonkim, xrupkim naturam s glubokoy dushoy..... ~Anutka~

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